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girls who are in the same situation as she was or to prevent this situation to girls.
Samantha was 19 when she met him. It was love at first sight. They were happy together.
After 6 months of relationship he asked her to move together and she moved to live with him.
Samantha was very happy as he was her first love. But, once he came home, drunk and
watching her chatting with her friends, he turned pale and hit her on her face. The next day,
she forgave him and this was the biggest error in her life. My advice, if he hits you, does not
forgive, brake up/divorce because for sure this will happen again and it can be worse. But,
Samantha forgave him and she did not tell anyone about this incident. As time passed by, he
was hitting her more often and more cruelly. Once he hit her so bad, that she has to be away
for one month in a hospital. She continued by not telling anyone and forgave him all the time.
It happened once they were at a friend’s party and he hit her in front of everyone. We were
completely shocked and seeing this, I took her to my place. She told me the whole story.
After that she moved back to her family and her mother went to take her clothes from the
boy’s apartment. He was mad; he was calling her every time, writing sms, in Skype, in face
book. We encouraged her to delete her accounts and to change her telephone number. It
was a very difficult times for her, she was afraid of every men, when someone was
approaching, she would ran away, she could not travel alone anywhere. But, with the help of
her family and friends, she moved on. Once she met her ex-boyfriend on the street and he was still begging her to come back saying that he went to some clinic to cure help himself; but when she said no, she saw the angry eyes as it was before.
All bad things have a good side, as after this horrible relationship, Samantha changed. She became a very strong and a confident woman, very confident. She graduated and is working now in a big company as an International Manager. She is not in a relationship now because she does not have a lot of free time, but she loves her jobs. She went to a lot of countries, met a lot of interesting people and she is very happy and satisfied.
For me as a human being her story was like a horror movie. I could not believe that this
happened to her and she did not tell anyone. I asked her a lot of questions and we came to
an idea that we would like to share this with other girls.
First, of all do not be afraid to get out or to run away. Do not think that you do not have any
place to go. You can always return to your family or go to some friends if not rent a room.
Visit some therapist and leave guys like him, because it may be fatal. You can always loan
some money, you can work and move on. Do not believe him when he is telling that it will not
happen again, or that he changed, IT IS NOT TRUE. Run away from hell. This is not love,
you are his prison. If the apartment is yours, leave it, do not care about it, you can sell it with
help of some agency, do not get in touch with him and change your number and accounts.
Get a spray in your purse. BE STRONG.
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